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Secrets to Make New Year’s Resolution a Feat  

 

It is the time of year to make a list of resolution. To some Singaporeans, the list will serve as their guide all throughout the year but to others, it is useless. Regardless of what we think, we have to acknowledge that a New Year’s resolution list can in fact shape our future.

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We only need to make it happen and stick to it but psychologists discovered that we are more likely to accomplish our goals if we divide our resolution into smaller goals. For those who divided their resolution into smaller goals, they felt sense of triumph. It is time that you feel the same.

Here are some tips on making a New Year’s resolution:

  • Create one resolution: You do not need a long list. Sometimes, you have to focus on one task and channel all your energy in achieving it. This will make things less complicated and time consuming for you.
  • Evade previous resolutions: The point here is to do something that you have never done so making a previous resolution will actually forfeit the purpose of New Year’s resolution. Revisiting the failure of the past will only make you bitter and disappointed.
  • Think well: New Year’s resolution depends on the person and it is not good to follow their pursuit. You are your own person and you only know what is best for you. So, instead of making a resolution based on other people’s list, you have to reflect and think well.

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  • Be practical: Most resolutions fail because they are not practical or realistic. The best thing that you should do is to divide your goal in sequence then create sub goals. The sub goals should be time-based, concrete and at the same time measurable.
  • Consider a reward system: If you feel the need to reward yourself for achieving a sub goal, you have to pursue it. The reward will maintain your motivation plus it will give you a sense of progress.
  • Expect failure: There will come a time that you revert back to your old habits. No matter how hard you try, there is something drawing you to your old habits. That is normal. Think of the failure as a temporary setback to make you strong. Do not give up. The resolution will be a total failure if you stop and not redeem yourself.

Most common New Year resolutions discuss about health. It is crucial that you maintain your state of health and be at your best. For a start, you can consider losing weight, quit smoking, getting active, drinking less alcohol and the like.     

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4 Ways to Stop Your Overthinking Tendencies

When faced with a crisis, or is forced to make an important decision, most of us tend to fall into the trap of overthinking and this is what robs us of our piece of mind. It’s the kind of mental exhaustion that keeps us from having a happier and healthier life. The good thing is this shouldn’t be the case. By doing these tricks, you can now lessen your overthinking tendencies and get your peaceful life again.

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  1. Distract Yourself. One of the best ways to keep yourself from overthinking is by doing activities that’ll keep you distracted. Engage into activities that works your hands like knitting, or activities that requires a lot of attention to distract your brain from overthinking. You can also try watching a suspense movie, to keep you hooked in the present and prevent you from worrying about the future.
  1. Steer Clear From Overthinking Traps. Overthinking is often caused by a lot of factors, and the best way to stop it is to stay away from these overthinking traps. If you’re the type who’s obsessed with money, then prevent yourself from constantly checking your bank account. If you have an overly pessimistic colleague that always drags you down, then start taking lunch elsewhere to limit your interaction with that person.

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  1. Keep a Journal. If you’re into writing then this trick will probably work wonders for you. The thing about overthinking concerns is that most of it just wants to be heard out. So carry around a small journal wherever you go and write down each concern that crosses your mind. Once you’re done, you’ll be surprise as to how clear your mind has become.
  1. Be Active Throughout the Day. One of the main reasons why you tend to overthink is because you have the time to do so. You have all the free time to think about all your worries and problems, causing you to overthink the things that might happen in the future. The good thing is you can prevent this by keeping yourself busy and active throughout the day. A good way to do this is to consider doing daily exercises like walking or Pilates. Getting your body tired will surely keep your wheel of thoughts from bugging you at night.

Overthinking is one of the most stressful things that you get to experience every now and then, but by keeping these solutions in mind, you’ll surely be able to stop and get over your overthinking tendencies.

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Ways to Encourage Studying and Discourage Gaming

Singaporean teens are hooked with online gaming. Online gaming can be addictive and it can destroy your child’s study habits. As a parent, you need to act upon this before your child loses sight of what is important and just live at the moment.

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Here are some ways you can encourage studying and discourage gaming:

  • Do not begin with the end in mind: Parents are inclined to emphasize the importance of passing the final exam or the diploma. Sometimes, your child simply wants to enjoy the learning process and not just think of the “end game”. It would be more beneficial if you help your child with his/her goal setting.
  • Help your child track his/her progress: Students only need to feel accomplished. With this, you need to help your child track his/her progress every day or every week. This way they will feel they can get far.

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  • Give challenges that are right for their skill level: If the task you are delegating is not challenging, your child will easily get bored but when you give a challenging task, your child tend to give up right away. You have to be in between. When you give a task, make sure that it is right for his/her skill level.

Maybe there are other things that you can do for your child. The important thing here is you are with him/her. Being addicted to online gaming is not easy as it looks like. If you find things difficult, there are many people that you can ask for help. You must know that there are many coaches and counsellors here in Singapore that can help you and your child.

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